Update
So i decided to drain an fill with filter the Transmisson "with amsoil" and wow it did make it wayyyyy better with shifts. But as for issue it was still present "fluid level at 3.5-4" so for the heck of it brought the fluid up to 2.5-2 3/4ish an NIGHT AN DAY. I don't know if my tranny has Vavlebody issues because once i clear adaptive tables for trans it wigs out an dose not want to even move smh. But as for the problem now it only dose it a little bit then locks up an shifts perfectly threw out the gears .So im gonna assume that the more fluid did work for me it could be some may want more fluid "weak pump" ect . I'm going to maybe try erasing everything in the adaptive tables now with the level at 2.5 an see if it fixed it completely . Or next thing will be .5 more of fluid and see whats up !
ill post up what i find out asap because i see a few of them having this issue.