Pretty thick-skinned here myself. And in this entire thread, I have merely offered my own observations and provided what may be, to some, otherwise unknown information. At no point have I "told" anyone to do anything.
The bottom line is that if anyone truly believes that Memorial Day is a day to feel "happy," they may want to pay a visit to any of the families and friends still suffering from their eternal losses and wish them a "happy" Memorial Day. Let me know how that goes---I'll wait.