So I have the two bolt subframe. MY2020 Build 6/2019, 66k miles. Replaced the two bolts with the new part# bolts today in about 20 minutes.
Findings? Existing bolts were not bent at all and appear to be equivalent to the new part# bolts (grade 10.9).
My conclusion? If you have a two bolt, it may not be worth it to replace the bolts with the new part#. Did the part# change because it's a stronger bolt or for some other reason besides that? We may never know for sure.