I don’t know for sure but I have determined it doesn’t matter what key I have on me, or how many times I try to set my memory settings. I suspect that, since these are safety features, they will always default ON when the ‘key’ is cycled on.
Side note, if you turn off the Active Braking, it should turn off the evasive steering assist automatically...that’s what it does on mine anyway.
Annoying though it is, I suggest you do what I have done and just establish a patterned routine when you get in. I have it down to a science now and can get everything I want turned on and/or off in 15 seconds or less. And for those short trips to the corner store or whatnot, just don’t worry about them.